Last week (the first week of May) was Maternal Mental Health week. My social media newsfeed was full of all kinds of things raising awareness and offering support. I’ve had a picture in my head for a while now about my own journey to motherhood, and it finally popped onto the page.
⭐ my motherhood journey⭐
It’s not that I thought it would be easy, and it’s a terrible cliche to say that nothing can prepare you for becoming a parent… but I think whatever your route to parenthood, it changes you in ways you cannot imagine.
And maybe in ways we’ll never understand.
Being pregnant in itself is such a transformation and perhaps I thought once Tris was born I’d go back to who I was before…
But I haven’t, and I can’t.
And that’s not a bad thing, it’s just a bit unsettling… here in the uk its #maternalmentalhealthawareness week and this was one of my #100daychallenge drawings for better mental health
Last week I had a really fun session with Busylizzy helping a big group of families with babies and toddlers make leaf and flower bunting. I was so impressed by everyone’s creativity 🙂
It’s a really fun activity and a great one for summer, so I thought I would share the resources on how to do it.
Here’s a worksheet with three different ways to make your bunting (click on the text below to open the PDF):
Making Leaf and Flower Bunting Worksheet
Depending on which option you go for you will need:
- Some ribbon or string (about 1.5m is ideal)
- Some scissors
- Some leaves and flowers. Gathering these can make this even more fun as you could go to the woods or a park to choose them. It might be a good idea to take a guidebook with you as you don’t want to pick anything rare or prickly. Hazel, ivy, or oak leaves are ideal. Alternatively, you could buy a bunch of flowers or use fake ones instead!
- Some card to cut into triangle shapes
- A hole punch to make holes in the top of each triangle to put the ribbon through
- Paint, brushes, water or colouring pencils, crayons pens – whatever you fancy using to decorate your triangles. Stickers could also be a good option
- Some black and white drawn leaves to cut out. There are three sheets ready for you to download and to print here (you might need to save each image first, depending on your browser):
Well, I can’t quite believe it, but yesterday we celebrated my son’s first birthday. Words can’t really capture the intensity of this journey/rollercoaster/whatever cliche fits…it’s been simultaneously magical and terrifying, and I wouldn’t’ change a thing 🙂
We have learnt so much, lost so much sleep, laughed a huge amount and it just feels like the biggest privilege to watch a human grow.
We enter the world so helpless compared to other animals (like those foals that are up and about so quickly after birth) but my goodness, those giant human baby heads are filled with brains that just have the most incredible potential for growth and change. It amazes me to think that my tiny son, who is on the cusp of getting the hang of speech and walking, will one day be able to drive a car…and it amazes me that this is how we all started. It’s also made me realise how much we take for granted the things that many of us can do – things like eating, drinking, movement, speech – these are all really complicated, they take ages to learn and it’s really not surprising that they can go wrong and any of us could lose those abilities. I’ve become so much more conscious of what it means to be human, and how adaptable, clever and vulnerable we are…
Tristan was born on a New Moon, 17 days after his due date. It’s another cliche to say that my partner and I were reborn at the same time, but it’s absolutely true.
I am still working on some illustrations inspired by the things I’ve found about birth and breastfeeding along the way, but in the meantime I wanted to share this gorgeous comic by Molly McIntyre which beautifully captures some of the issues breastfeeding – do go check it out on the Everyday Feminism site.